My Roman Shade Installation and a New Update!

Hi Everyone,

There’s an important update on the Roman Shades. Plus, some other information, I hope you find interesting and useful. This experience triggered some memories of situations involving clients that I generally keep buried. So, if you’ve already read part 1, then please click the link below; otherwise, please start reading from the top of the page.

 

Part 2 Begins Here

 

Part 1 follows is directly below:

 

I know. Everything has a problem.

Yes, you’re catching on.

Welcome to the glamorous world of interior design. You think it’s just you? No, it’s not just you. Things go wrong more often than not. It’s the nature of doing custom work.

I didn’t tell you, but it was two weeks ago, on July 3.

 

My windows got washed.

 

iving room windows washed 7.3.2025

Yes, the prison bars were opened!

 

Den windows getting washed 7.3.2025

Surprise #2 is that yes, my Roman Shades got installed–TODAY!

 

The installer, Javier, came right on time and couldn’t have been nicer.
He even wiped on top of the window casing for me. I knew nobody had cleaned it, even though I asked the cleaners nicely if they could clean all around the casing. Still, they did a good job with the windows.

So, before I show you the new shades, I have to tell you first of all that I love them.

 

I mean, I really LOVE them!

You know, sometimes when something is new, it takes me a bit to get used to it. Not these. These Roman Shades are like the chord that finishes a song. (Musicians torture each other by leaving off that last note.)

And all of that careful planning of the trim paid off. It is perfect. If you’d like to read about that, you can go to this post.

 

Unfortunately, there’s a problem; it’s easily fixable, but the shades don’t work.

 

They don’t work because the cords are like a mile too short.

 

Roman shade cord - too short

I don’t know how this happened.

 

Roman Shade cord is too short

However, as you can see, there’s no way I can reach the cord that controls the shade’s up-and-down movement.

Usually, the cords are designed so that they must wrap around a cleat to prevent anyone from getting hurt. Some workrooms do a continuous chain-type loop. I believe my Roman shades in Bronxville had that. However, this is how we made Roman Shades for most of my career.

Another thing is that Dianne most likely has never created a shade with a permanent pleat at the bottom. I don’t know. I haven’t spoken to her yet.

 

What is a permanent pleat, Laurel? 

 

A permanent pleat is when the pleat or fold is sewn so that there is always a fold, even when the shade is hanging all the way down. I thought we had discussed it, and it is included on the work order, which I will share in a second.

As you recall, I specked the shades about 18″ too short because I know I won’t ever let them all the way down, and I was afraid it would be too much fabric.

So, let’s take a look at them installed.

Javier installing Roman Shades July 2025
Javier had these up so fast, but alas, that’s when we discovered the issue with the cords. It is not difficult to fix. Someone is most likely coming next week to restring and reinstall the shades.

 

Even without the permanent fold, they look quite lovely as they are.

 

living room Roman Shades Custom Greek Key trim

 

The shade on the left looks greenish due to the ivy on the wall outside the window!

 

Now, let’s take a look at the shade in the den.

 

I have to confess that I was a bit nervous about it. Was it the right color? Would it look weird? Should I have done the Brunschwig Le Lac?

iving room roman shade + coordinating roman shade den Le Lac

The image above is a virtual Roman shade from last January.

 

Den Roman Shade

Again, I love everything about this beautiful Roman Shade!

And I can’t tell you how happy I am that I did not do the Le Lac in the den. As some of you feared, it would’ve been too busy. If the window wasn’t so visible, that might be different.

Living room Roman Shades- looking into den

The two rooms are tied together, and the white looks fantastic juxtaposed with the other white elements in the color-blocked room. The black trim looks so wonderful!

 

Den Roman Shade with Greek Key custom trim

 

Like my inspiration, Greek Key trim designed by Meg Braff, the trim on mine looks like the darkest charcoal gray. But make no mistake; it is BLACK and in person, bolder than it appears in these images.

 

Meg Braff Designs beautiful Greek Key trimmed Roman Shade - Photo Nick Mele

 

Meg Braff Designs – I copied her beautiful Greek Key-trimmed Roman Shade – Photo Nick Mele.

 

Below are the diagrams and instructions I sent to Dianne.

 

Greek Key Roman Shade Template for my shades

My living room Roman Shade schematic - shade up 5_ Greek Key Trim

Let’s take another look at the living room.

 

living room + new Roman Shades with Greek Key Trim

The image above almost looks like a virtual shade, but no, they are there!

As for the misunderstanding, or things going wrong. It’s part of the business, no matter how careful one is. I’m so relieved I’m no longer working with clients. The anxiety I had every time I had an installation was awful. It’s bad enough when it’s only me involved.

Okay, that’s all for now.

We’ll finish the mouldings, finishes, and architectural details on the lower level on Sunday. 

xo,

 

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Part 2 Begins Here

Sunday, July 20, 2025

Hi Everyone,

I was going to finish up the mouldings and tile downstairs; however, I have a Roman Shade update.

Dianne got back to me right away and felt awful about all of it– the short cord and the lack of a permanent pleat. (fold) just before the nine-inch flap at the bottom of the shade, which would always be exposed, whether the shade is up or down. The reason for the permanent pleat is that when the shade is fully extended, it doesn’t resemble a sheet hanging on a clothesline.

 

Haha. Slight exaggeration, but not by much.

 

Early in my career, we did plain white linen Roman Shades in a boy’s room. One day after the shades were installed, I was in the boy’s bedroom for another reason. To my horror, not only were they just hanging like a piece of cloth, but they were also dragging on the sill a bit. Ugh. I was grateful my wealthy client didn’t seem to be one bit phased. That experience taught me that I needed always to specify a permanent pleat for all of my Roman Shade orders.

However.

 

I realize you’re waiting for the other shoe to drop, because there must be another reason I’m still writing about the Roman Shades.

 

The truth is, I also goofed.

 

 

 

How’d you do that, Laurel?

 

Do you mean the goof or the animation?

 

The animation, Laurel. 

 

AI, of course. You know, you can teach an old dog new tricks.

 

ChatGPT Image Jul 19, 2025 - You can teach an old dog new tricks

 

How did you goof, Laurel?

 

Okay, I still adore the shades, but the truth is, I really should’ve ordered them the full 102 inches instead of 80″. That’s why I’m hanging my head in shame.

Some of you questioned that decision, and I said it would be fine. Well, it would be if I were certain that the shades would always be up at least halfway.  However, they look good hanging low, and the sun is still reflecting inside more than I realized.

 

The reason I didn’t order them the full 102″ is that I was worried there’d be way too much bulk when the shades are up.

 

I think the longest Roman Shade I’ve ever had made was maybe 72″. In fact, hang on.

 

Soft Fold Roman Shade
Wait, no. These are maybe 66″ long.

My big shade in Bronxville was 68″, and it was not that easy to pull up.

 

31 Pondfield Rd Bronxville, NY apartment for sale - living room - Benjamin Moore America's Heartland wall color
These shades had rings only on the ends, which is one reason why.  My shades are straight across and have four rows of rings to distribute the weight.

 

Still, I was nervous about doing such a super-long shade.

 

However, I talked to Dianne. She felt bad because she made a mistake about the pleat, and I felt bad because it began to bug me when I noticed how much sun was still coming in with the 22″ of glass showing.

 

So, Dianne volunteered to remake them– gratis.

 

I’m not used to this. What I’m used to are workrooms not taking any responsibility for anything.

I wrote a post which many of you have seen, but if you haven’t, it’s a must-read. It’s about 15 hideous mistakes one can make– with fabric. Well, it should be 1500.

 

However, two incidents occurred in my business years ago that I don’t think are mentioned in that post.

 

One was with an upholstery fabric. I may have mentioned this in another post. But, anyway, about a month after the client received two custom chairs and an ottoman upholstered in the same Kravet fabric, I got a call that the welting was unraveling.

Say what???

It’s a horrible feeling. I know this will cost me money. The question is, “How much money?”

 

I went over to the client’s home and, trying to be empathetic, I brought my stomach knot with me.

 

She was right. The welting was unraveling.

I contacted the guy who made the chairs.

You already know.

He played ignorant; not his problem.

I called Kravet. It wasn’t their problem either.

 

I argued with Kravet and told them it was bloody well their problem.

 

The fabric shouldn’t be unraveling!

They said, “Well, we don’t know what you were using the fabric for.”

Yes, guys, that’s what they said.

I told them we had used it to make a couple of dog beds and a scratching post for my client’s cat.

 

Of course, I quickly retorted.

 

“No, we used it to upholster two club chairs and an ottoman. Is that not what this upholstery weight fabric is for? If the fabric required special treatment for upholstery, it should have been specified on the label.

This time, I was right and they knew it.

I got the manager on the horn, and they reluctantly sent me another 20 yards of fabric for the do-over.

 

Now, let’s discuss the upholsterer who knowingly used fabric that was unraveling for the welting.

 

Should he have realized that there was a problem with the fabric?

YES!!! A thousand times, yes. However, I didn’t press it. I should have but I didn’t.

Why did the fabric unravel?

It’s a type of weave with tiny horizontal ribs, known as an ottoman. When this type of weave is cut on the bias for welting, it will unravel.

 

It was similar to the fabric shown below.

 

Ottoman ribbed upholstery fabric

What is the solution?

There are two. One is to send the fabric out to be knit-backed. We’ve talked about that one, for sure.

The other solution I was unaware of at the time, but later learned about, is that the upholsterer could have glued the ends of the fabric to prevent them from unraveling. But, he didn’t do that.

 

Furthermore, he didn’t give me a break in any way to re-do the chairs and ottoman.

 

The fabric was exceptionally nice, and it worked well for another job that required an upholstered ottoman. So, I had to take care of that one; of course, it was unraveling too.

My entire profit from those pieces of furniture was wiped out entirely.

Finally, the client with the chairs, to show her gratitude for my prompt attention, stiffed me on the last bill for the balance of two end tables.

 

Isn’t this fun?

 

As I’ve often said. I love design, but I can’t stand the business.

One more quick story. This one involves a Roman Shade. One time, in a book, I saw a very cool Roman Shade made with a sheer fabric on top to let max light in and an opaque fabric on the bottom half in a contrasting color for privacy.

I had a job that was perfect for this treatment, and the client loved it too.

As always, I was there for the installation, and although this one-woman workroom had made 100s of Roman Shades for me, these looked like something the dog dragged in. But, the installer steamed them and they were better.

 

A couple of days later, I got the call I was hoping wouldn’t come, but did.

 

The client hated her shades and said they looked like rags. She wasn’t screaming at me. Yes, on occasion, I’d get someone screaming in my ear. Of course, I knew that the four shades needed to be re-done.

This one-woman workroom that I had given dozens of jobs to for over ten years, did not budge one nickel on the price to do four more Roman shades with one fabric, this time.

Again,  the fact that they didn’t turn out wasn’t in any way her fault or her problem. I was incredulous. I thought it would’ve been fair if she split the cost of the labor, and I would supply the fabric. She refused.

And yes, I stopped working with her shortly after that.

 

Well, I think y’all get the point.

 

That’s why when Dianne told me she’d take care of it, I was overwhelmed with gratitude. I wasn’t expecting that. She is a rare jewel who stands behind her work. She has integrity. That’s why her company, By Harrington, has been on my Hot Sales page for the last few years. Plus, her prices are very reasonable. I promise you that whatever she’s charging, the price would be at least triple in Boston.

Things go wrong. We all make mistakes, but if it’s not a matter of life or death, the mistakes themselves aren’t the issue. It’s how people handle the mistakes that matters.

Like I always say. “I’ve made a lot of mistakes; I just try not to make the same ones twice.”

xo,

 

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36 Responses

  1. I can totally relate to the ups and downs with your Roman shades. I had the same kind of learning curve when I tried peel and stick wallpaper, it looks so easy, but I quickly realized the little details make all the difference. Yours turned out great in the end!

  2. I really appreciated your honest take on the Roman shade install—I’ve learned more from what didn’t go as planned than what did! As a student tackling my first home project, your tips on measuring and troubleshooting are super helpful. Thank you for keeping it real and informative

  3. If you decide to do a Roman shade with any workroom or commercial company, please ensure the proper child and pet safety regulations are followed. Cord with cleat Roman shades are no longer considered a safe operating lift system.
    Following all safety compliances when constructing/fabricating window treatments is a top priority in the professional window treatment business.
    As a single person small business, I fabricate, communicate and ensure all compliance mandates are followed, advising my customers of these regulations.

  4. Oh my goodness, I love your AI animation and the quick video of you going from happy to sad! Mostly, I want to say kudos to Dianne for her great kindness to you. I hope I need shades someday just so I can use her services :]

  5. Wow! If I ever decide to do romans, I may go with “the Bern shade” – love that she named them after you. Such eye candy on your beautiful windows!

  6. Hallelujah for the full length shades!! Given that you are going to have them down part ways a lot and probably not up all the way much, this is going to be the best outcome. And three cheers for Dianne. I will use her if I ever get to the point of being able to change my window treatments.

    You are going to be thrilled with the new shades. Romans are my favorite. I think I like loose folds the best. Are you sure loose folds wouldn’t work on your windows? Maybe the Greek key design wouldn’t lend itself to loose folds?

    As I tried to say last time, the permanent pleat at the bottom would have fooled my eye a bit, but without that, my brain was signaling to me that things were definitely not right at those windows, kind of like having a skirt hem that was too short for the outfit’s silhouette.

    Maybe that is because of my background as a the daughter of a professional seamstress. I know how fabrics and clothing design works enough for my eye to signal something is wrong.

    One more element to your dollhouse will be done to perfection.

    And we all make mistakes, even when we should know better, so do not hang your head in shame.

    Even though writing is my profession, I make a ton of mistakes all the time. There are lots of reasons for that, but the ultimate reason is that I am a human being and thank goodness for that. I really do not aspire to be a rock. Living creature make mistakes, that is how evolution works.

    Onwards with your dollhouse.

  7. Curious what kind of lining you used in your Roman shades? Any interlining?
    Also have to commend you for the extra detailed drawing you sent to the workroom.. with the exact measurements of the Greek keys. That was quite a feat!
    Thanks for sharing all your details!!
    Love it all..

  8. I wonder if the short cord was in an effort to have the shade be more safe? As a one-woman retail workroom, I follow all of the latest and regularly changing safety compliance guidelines, and have not installed a pull cord cleated shade in well over 10 years. Even the short cord is not compliant and could be a liability for the workroom, the homeowner and any future owners of the home. There have been some good advances in Roman shade lift systems that are functional and safety compliant.

  9. Dianne is an amazing artist, fabricator etc. Her grace is unmatched in this situation. Kudos.
    Looking forward to the next post.

  10. I can feel the anxiety you would have experienced and fully understand how thankful you are that you’re no longer working with clients. There will always be mistakes but in my experience it has rarely been the designer’s fault. But, oh man, that’s one tough business! I’ve recently hired a designer and she’s wonderful, but several whom I contacted were retiring after “this last contract”. I get it!

  11. Any chance you might consider using light blocking liner on the shades to eliminate those outside shadows this time around?

    1. Hi Monica,

      It’s not a consideration. I don’t want to block the light entirely. Gosh, I only have four windows and one glass door. That’s the thing about photos. They are a moment frozen in time out of billions of moments one has when living in a space. So what might be bothersome in an image isn’t experienced in real life.

  12. Just perfect! Please come decorate my house!! I’ve learned so much from you, but need more guidance. My mother, who died last year at almost 95, was great to bounce design ideas off of and we shared similar taste. She was not professionally trained, but had an artistic sense of design, color and balance. I do, too, but nothing like you! You’re home is simply gorgeous.

  13. Thank goodness you get a do over on the blinds! My designer made the same mistake and those dang blinds bugged me until the day I personally threw them in the dumpster. When I saw yours I gasped and now I can breathe easier with you!

  14. Hi Laurel,
    Whenever you entertain us with your stories of things that go wrong it reinforces why I’m glad I never became a designer. As much as I love design I could never handle that kind of stress.
    Are you going to order more fabric & have the shades made longer? I think you’re going to have to bite the bullet on this one.
    I loved your animation. So cute!

  15. Just when I thought your home couldn’t look any lovelier…BAM! I love the simple elegance of your shades. They are the perfect touch to your space!

  16. They are lovely!

    The math is confusing and trying to figure it out calls for some aspirin, ..so I’ll skip it. Did the maker achieve the objective of not concealing the key design when the shade is partially or fully up? That’s probably more important than having a permanent fold. You probably explained in a prior post: what’s the visual difference between having a permanent fold and simply having a longer shade pulled up one fold?

  17. Laurel,
    Everything you have critiqued through your renovation has yielded a home which is exquisite, refreshing, timeless, and pays homage to the building’s architectural features that have suffered at the hands of
    previous owners, forced illogical codes and general lack of respect for the structure itself. You need to pat yourself on the back for your endurance through this project because while you needed to rethink “challenges”, you never lost sight of your vision, and in the process, you never “settled” for less.
    Congratulations for hanging in there. Simply beautiful! And thank you so much for sharing every bit of minutiae! The shades are the icing on the cake!

  18. I love how the black Greek key on the shades relates to the black Greek key on the stair railing – it’s always beautiful when different elements “speak” to each other.

  19. I had Dianne make a Roman shade for me, and the cord is also very short. I wonder if that’s her default? My ceilings are just over 9 feet tall — not nearly as grand as yours — and I can just barely reach it, but it is nice not to have to tie up a lot of cord, so I’m not going to fix it.

    I do prefer having a cord over a chain loop, which is the industry standard now (for child safety).

  20. They look wonderful. I am one of the people who thought using the linen for all three shades would look better. I am glad you did that.

    They look cool as in temperature cool. I don’t know how they will feel in winter, but the effect conjures a perfect summer day, warm with a gentle breeze.

    However, I would have done a shade that went the full length of the window. It would drive me crazy to realize I couldn’t lower the shade all the way.

    For you, the temperature of your lightbulbs drives you crazy. My brain works differently in the case of the shades. My eye is signaling to me that something is off. When the cords are restrung, you will be able to raise them a bit and the folds will indicate to my eye that there is enough fabric to completely cover the window. I don’t understand why you thought it would be too much fabric. Perhaps because there would be too many pleats when the shade was raised completely?

    Anyway, I am thrilled to look at each new element going into place. I can’t wait for the entrance way panels to go up. They are going to make a big difference. I am so used to your renderings it is as if they are already in place!!

    You have created a one of a kind dollhouse. It will be a shame if your finished spaces are not showcased in a design publication.

  21. The Roman shades are lovely…worth the wait! The cord will be an easy fix. So happy you chose the same for the den. More continuity when seen from the living room.

  22. Hi Laurel,
    This was certainly worth the wait. They are lovely. It never occurred to me that the pull cord wouldn’t be long enough for them to function. Crazy! But at least it’s fixable.
    This reminds me I really need to wash my windows. I keep putting it off because there’s always rain predicted.

  23. They look terrific! Elegant but not overwhelming. They really bring the room together. Enjoy.

  24. The Roman shades are beautiful! In the it’s a small world realm, Meg Braff and I grew up in the same small town in northeast Mississippi, went to the same church, and her father was my orthodontist. She’s super talented just like you!

    I’m curious to hear more about the burglar bars. Hope you’re able to get rid of them all—or at least the ones on the upstairs windows.

  25. Oh Laurel! The shades are SO simple and SO elegant. They are perfect with the symphony of design decisions you’ve made. What a timeless design. Yes, they are perfect. Hopefully the fix will go smoothly. Enjoy them in good health!

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